How to deal with a ex-husband when he wants to see his son on his terms

Sharon - posted on 09/09/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My husband leafed me 7 months ago not a good break up he was cheating and still with the women I have a 5 year old which he see when it suits him I..e when he not working with her or on holiday . I had to charge my life around and had a lot of help of my family and friend he now wants to see his son and telling me what right he got how can he do that when he walk out on us done what he done and now he telling me what he want how is this fair and how should I deal with it I am vary upset and angry at him ....

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Sharon - posted on 09/09/2014

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I do not treat my son like you are saying in any way . I have not stop his father seeing his son at all I just can't be dealing with the stress and upset he causes ever time he lets us down .

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/09/2014

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Did you get court orders regarding custody/support/visitation? If not, do so immediately.

These things need to be set up in court so that there is a legal document to adhere to on both sides. Just because he walked out on you to be with another woman doesn't mean that he doesn't have the same parental rights in regard to the child that you have. The child is not 'up for grabs', nor should the child be treated as a possession.

Get an attorney, file for custody & support, and get visitation arranged.

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