Rmplusp - posted on 06/03/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
The father of my son and I dated for 2 1/2 years (on and off). We planned to wed and tried to have a baby the first year we're together. Things were tough at first because we couldn't conceive. It was stressful enough for us that we started questioning our relationships. He had problems with alcohol and denied his mental issues. He was diagnose with bipolar (what he said) and depression. He debase me when ever chance he get and that is always the start of our heated arguments. Long story short, the relationship did not last and yes I moved out and decided to move on... One day, we started talking again and kept in touch. And then, I got PREGNANT. I told him the news as soon as I can and all he told me was, "Congratulations, your ovary still works", followed by a high-five. He didn't want anything to do with the baby at the beginning of trimester. I stop our communication after that. But once in a while, he started asking about my pregnancy until the end of my trimester. I found out that he has girlfriend then, and told her, he got me pregnant while they are on a break. I tried to be positive this whole time and focus on my baby. The day after my newborn arrived, he told me that they're now engage! Now that my son is 7 weeks old, I told him that I filled for child support and we came to an agreement of co-parenting and visitations. It was a LOT to take in, the worries I have for my son spending time with his father and his fiancé who's a complete stranger. We have an upcoming christening event and I'm not sure if she's going to be there. Everything is just happening so fast. I can only understand and accept things for what it is, but sometimes, I can't help and cry. Right now, all I need is some encouraging words that will help me get through where I'm at. Any advice I can get from all the Mommies who are going through the same thing, thank you in advance.