How to deal with my baby father's MOTHER!!!!!

Centerica - posted on 10/29/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )

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The father of my 2 kids was just approved for disability and now all of a sudden his mom wants to keep MY kids and act like she's the best grandmother in the world now because she knows the will each get checks, but they are MY kids so the checks will come to me. I'm sure she already knows that but the thing is that before all this happened she never kept them, but that was somewhat understandable, because she is a single mother of 5, 4 are grown now and they all have different dads. She works two jobs and I understand that yes she may be tired and just not in the mood to keep any small children after work and on the weekends she may just what to rest, but there's no excuse to not call, she never even did something as simple as calling them just to see how they were doing!!!! It seems to me that she is just money craved and only wants to be in their lives now because of the money. She also is using her son like crazy, and he is either to stupid or weak to do or say anything, but that is a whole different story!!! So my question is how do I deal with a mother like this without losing my cool.

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Stifler's - posted on 10/30/2011

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sorry to tell you but disability cheques don't equate to a hell of a lot of money. maybe she has come to her senses about keeping in touch with the kids. like you said, she will get no money anyway.

Sherri - posted on 10/29/2011

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If it is his visitation time then you do nothing, as it isn't your concern when they are in his care.

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