How to deal with my unborns father

Keyerrah - posted on 01/05/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )

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He wants a relationship but my main concern is our unborn daughter, how do I get him to understand that

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Jodi - posted on 01/05/2015

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If you are not interested in having a relationship (or sex) with him, just make it clear to him that from now on, your relationship will ONLY be a co-parenting one. Let him know you are happy to keep him informed about the baby and your pregnancy and happy for him to be involved in that, but that's it. Discuss with him how you may be able to co-parent, even come up with a parenting plan for custody and visitation for the child so that you have something ready to be notarised by the courts when the baby is born. But that is the limits of your relationship.

Sarah - posted on 01/05/2015

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I don't understand, he want a relationship with both of you. Are you not wanting to have a relationship with him? Even if you are not romantically involved, you are linked to each other thru this baby.

Ev - posted on 01/05/2015

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When the baby is born get cusotdy, visits and child support all set up. That should take care of a lot of things.

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Keyerrah - posted on 01/05/2015

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We can never have a decent conversation without him bringing the past up. I don't mind being friends but as far as a relationship I just feel that its too much for right now

Jodi - posted on 01/05/2015

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What kind of relationship is he after? A relationship with you? Or a relationship with the baby?

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