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I have a 6 year old girl who twice in the last 2 weeks thinks that it is ok that she can leave without telling me where she is going. 2 weeks ago when she did this I found her at a friends house, that I don't know very well. When we home I sat her down and explained to her that I was scared and very worried and explained to her that there are people that can take her from me. She was punished appropriately for this but today after we arrived home she asked if she could run next door and see if another friend could play. I said yes but run right back, we live in an apartment complex. After about 3 minutes she did not arrive home and I checked the friend where she was going and she was not there. The young boy across the street said she had gone down to the park a block from our home. I frantically ran down there and found her happy as can be and not a care in the world. I don't know what to do to make her understand that she cannot just leave without telling me. It really worries me as I know there are people that would not give a second thought about hurting my little girl. Please if anyone has any advice on what to do please let me know.
I should clarify that I live in a smaller town but I am not stupid enough to believe that we are exempt from horrific crimes. Yes I ran inside to put the milk away and then went to look for her, maybe not the best idea but I am just wondering how to convey to my daughter that this is not right and if any other parents have had these issues and how they have dealt with them.