Busa Jackie - posted on 12/13/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )
Hi ladies, l am going through a rough time and l am not sure what to do anymore. l have a beautiful 2yr old baby boy, and l need full custody of my son. My common -law husband has been very abusive to a point l decided to leave him. l did not have a proper place, l went to the woman's shelther and l left my son with his dad. l found myself a place and he is holding my son. l do get to see him during weekend and sometimes during the week. l know my son is better off with me at this time of his life, but my partner is punishing me through my son. my son cries so much when his dad is picking him up and l feel my heart being ripped out. l am not sure what to do. what l know is that l am damaging my child by allowing him to go to his dad. he is a good dad, but we all see the stress that we are cousing our child. l feel like am losing my mind, the look from my son kills me and l am hurting so bad. l have tried to talk to my partner with no sucess. l left everything behind, l cant afford a lawyer and he has so much money. l know that he does not want to pay child support and frankly speaking l can do without. l feel like am killing my own son with my bare hands. please ladies give me some advise.thank you for your time.