Madelaine - posted on 10/13/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )
Hi Moms, Im divorced for a year now, but seperated from my ex husband for 4 years. We join custody of our 7 year old boy. I have been seeing someone for a couple of months now, and Dad is also in a relationship now. My partner and I are work colleques therfore we do not see each other too often after hours and hardly ever in the weeks that I have my boy with me. He also never stay over at my place for the reason that I have a 1 bedroom flat, and my child sleep with me. Dad recently met someone and she stay over at his place often, and my boy is very upset about that and cries all the time for the fact that he cannot sleep with Dad anymore and has to sleep in his own room now after 4 years? He is also of recent very offish towards my partner when he does see him. We are talking about moving in together but I'm very concerned of how my boy will handle this. My partners kids are 16 years and 20 years old. Please give me some advise on how to get my boy to adapt to both parents new partners without hurting his feelings. For all his years he has been more that EVERYTHING to the both of us. Thank you kindly, hope to hear from you soon.