How to get my husband in the mood?

Jovan - posted on 05/02/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )




Recently no sexual activity has been going on in our bedroom. I would say its been 3 weeks and this is not like my husband. We are in our early 20's. Now for you more wise and more experienced woman. How can I get my husband in the mood?


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Denikka - posted on 05/03/2012




Figure out what he likes. If he really likes BJs, maybe wake him up with one. Or act out some fantasy of his, dressing up or something like that. Just start with something he likes. Or plan a romantic evening, like Sarah suggested. Dinner, massage, get sensual :P
You can also talk to him and ask what's going on. It could be stress, it could be a medical problem. Men are notorious for ignoring medical issues that can cause problems. It could be something serious, or it could be something silly that's causing problems.
Good luck heating things up :P

Sarah - posted on 05/02/2012




Make a nice meal, make sure the house is clean. A nice massage, then pounce on him! If he's still not in the mood ask him what's up, maybe he's just super stressed.

Annaleigh - posted on 05/02/2012




Wait for him to go to sleep and have your way with him...hopefully he'll wake up and go for it. Or you could try laying down the law...Gimme it or else! Send him to get a job out of state so you only see him on the weekends? (worked wonders for us, lol).

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