how to get my teenager to not refuse going into school

Diane - posted on 11/22/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

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i need some help by getting my 13teen year old daughter back into school ? as she gets to school, but when we get to recption she then refuses to talk to the teachers or go into class . i only have 6weeks to change things then looking going to court for late and non attendance if nothing has improved for my daughter .

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Diane - posted on 11/22/2013

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my daughter is not going through her cycle yet as just waiting till time comes on that , as well as her fourteen year old sister . she does get moody and used to slam doors also hit back at me , till i mention it in the meeting last week , she does not do the slaming doors or the hitting out on me now , thank goodness really , as it did hurt my feelings and leave me with bruises at times when she got angry . she was told that if she carries on then i have to report her to the police as its abuse and then she would be in more trouble than she already was in with the school .

Diane - posted on 11/22/2013

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she used to go to school on time on her own with out her sisters , but then relise they was coming in to school yet again later and alot later in the day and in the afternoons , then she started to do it as well , but not liking going into school late , so we had tried a few things by going to bed earlier at night times and getting up earlier in the mornings , with help of alarm clocks from the school . which we still try and do now , as manage to get 2 in on time to school , but just the one will not go into to school and go to her lessons , as always she has some met to say about either the teachers are not understanding her writting or help her to go on to the computer ,as she has tried 6 times to get a new password or the kids at school by calling her names about head lice and that they tell other kids in her year , i always do her hair by checking and dee nitting it with a comb and use the treat ment as well as do my other kids hair too. i have mention it to the deputy head whos been sorting things out in the school and emailing the teachers about it , also her 2 lessons that she does not like going to her options sicence and nomal pe . but she has no choice but to attend those lessons . just seems to be excuses all the time by not going into school to her class .

Colleen - posted on 11/22/2013

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Did she skip a day once in a while? Not feel like going? Getting sick a lot? Or did she just wake up one day and refuse to go to school or talk with teachers?

Colleen - posted on 11/22/2013

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Wow, did this just start suddenly or were there other signs leading up to this?

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