Heather - posted on 09/09/2009 ( 40 moms have responded )
shortly after i found out i was pregnant i started planning the baby shower out, then the person that was going to throw the party, turns around and makes up excuses and bringing the past up so she doesnt have to do it? this person also has made plans several times and wasnt there when i showed up before she canceled the plans. her excuse were things that happened in the past as well and then made up a few different stories to cover it up. now i have someone that i really care about that isnt talking to me because of her. my husband and i are certain we didnt do anything to deserve this treatement so now we dont have them around, and for the 20th time of going thru this with the same person we are feeling bad for no reason and i feel i should just drop it and break the ice... but again we didnt do anything and i dont want to be treated like this anymore and no matter what i say it doesnt help it just keeps happening? now we arent having a baby shower and we arent having these people around and invovled in our life, should we just leave them out or be the better person and give in yet again?