how to get some support and help with getting things for the baby before its due but iam not working yet cuz i was put to bedrested cause of the horrible morning sickness i was having but im only in my 1st trimster and im only 20 yrs old and i moved out but it was for the bested and my spouse is unconfused about the baby cause he having had a child running around in so long cause he child is older and on her own with her own and it breaks my heart thats he keeps on saying that we not ready cause of only one income coming in but im trying hard to get help from the state or so

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and also i dont wanter adopt either and thats a another thing that he keeps on bringing up and how i said that but i said that at first cuz i was scared but now i have changed my mind for the bested and now he showing me that he dont want anything with us but he could make one and have me go thought all this pains and aches and stuff but im keeping my baby cause all i wanted its a family before 22 or 23 yrs old of aged

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/06/2012

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Find a solid support system for yourself, because the first 3 months of new baby are the HARDEST!

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/06/2012

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If you want your baby, keep it. Find out about WIC in your area, food stamps, and contact a womens shelter in your area to find out about donations. You are in the beginning of your pregnancy. If you can work, do. If you do not want this man in your life because he keeps vacillating

about wanting this child, kick him to the curb. Why would you want a man in your life that doesn't want to be there? And you are young. You have plenty of time to build a family. Don't just get pregnant just because. But since you already are, and you sound like you want this baby, be the best mother you can be. It is not about you alone anymore and what you want. It is about your baby.

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