[deleted account] ( 7 moms have responded )
Long story short... my daughters biological father has never been in her life. My now husband has been in her life since she was 1 1/2 and knows him as daddy, and he's been great with her. Tonight we were talking about tattoo's. I know its stupid, but he said that he would not tattoo Adrina's (my daughters) name on his body. BUT if I had a child with him, he would. It really upset me, I see it as he is treating Adrina differently than he would his own child... but Adrina is his child. She has known him as daddy for over a year now, she has no idea what the term 'step-dad' means.
Overall, should I be upset? Am I over reacting? Is he in the wrong for knowing what a responsibility marrying a woman with a child should consist of? Treating her child as your own....?