Olivia - posted on 03/08/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
I have two kids age 3 and a month old. My husband work night shifts and I used to work at a school but I tool the time off when I got pregnant with my second because health issues. My husband is a nice guy but he does not help out in the family. He always sleeps till pass 4pm and he only works two nights a week, but he is gone every night, he will spend his "free" nights playing poker or going to a bar drinking. And then he will complain he is too tired to get up with the kids. He does not make nearly enough to provide for us and I will have to borrow money from my parents to pay some bills yet his excuse when I try to talk to him about how I feel is that he works and I am a stay at home mom now so doing chores is my job not his. I am really mad at him for being not understanding but I do not know a better way to solve my problem. Does anyone have the similar problem? what's your suggestions? I am thinking about divorce but I am so afraid I will lose custody to my children or one of them because I do not have a job now.