how to handle my ex's new wife insecurities

Edith - posted on 01/13/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )

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When i left my ex it was tough road. I am happy and my child is happy. It was an abusive relationship n it started like that when i started going to school. He had an ex wife n they had 3 children. She made our relationship hell, by making him chose between me n his kids. She was a bitter person. Yet i never dealt with her because i chose not to participate with it.
After i left him, he broke n got a dwi. Then dissappeared from my daughter for year. He finally returned, and remarried his ex wife.

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Edith - posted on 01/13/2016

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My issue is that i dont know how to deal with with her insecurites and games. Example. I get a message from my ex at 11pm asking if my daughter is on medication. It was random and usual, so i asked if everything is alright. He ignored my concerns n dicided to only to speak with my sister. So i was left in the dark trying to figure out if my daughter was ok. She is 6. I had to call police so least someone could check on her.
Its situations like these that i just dont get. I dont want fight or play games. I know she controls eerythibg n im totally cool with that. I just dont understand why i have to be dragged into it. Im in the middle of finishing my bachlors n trying to go to law school. Im making a life for me n my daughter, yet this female wants to play games using my daughter. I have tried n offered to sit down with her so work on being civil. She said go F*****myself. So i guess no. I dont know. Im just trying to stay positive, but i have moments where she distracts me n difficult. Any tips

Dove - posted on 01/13/2016

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Why do you need to deal w/ your ex-husband's new wife? She's really his problem to handle.

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