how to have a good relationship with biologial mom?

Elena - posted on 09/26/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I am a young college soon to be step mom. I have known the bio mom ever since she was pregnant with andie. The first time i was ready to meet andie was a few months ago and now we have become close. The bio mom knows that i take care of her and makes sure she is always behaving. The bio mom does not have a problem with me but never means to speak with me. Although the bio mom and i do not really talk, i want to begin our relationship. I feel that talking to one another will be best for us and andie. i need help as to how should i approach the bio mom? what questions should i ask? and not ask? i want the bio mom and i to become friends so we can both take care of andie without any trust issues between us. Help me!

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Vicki - posted on 09/26/2012

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So maybe you can start a conversation when your picking her up or dropping her off? Maybe start a conversation that way share with her things that went on during your visit with Andie. Is she working or doing something else that you can inquire about? I would say getting to know each other would be great for Andie but i would start with small talk and let it naturally progress into more

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Vicki - posted on 09/26/2012

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So the child lives with her mother and your boyfriend just has visitations? Is this correct?

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