How to keep a Romantic relationship with my husband when we live with my mother and siblings and new baby

Delilah - posted on 04/12/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




We are Currently living with my Mother to save for a home and share a room with our new baby .since we are 28 and 29 we don't ask for a baby sitter unless we really need one .i love my husband to death and just feel like we have no romance and worried my husband may only be romantic with me when he's been drinking because he's so shy (he has always been this way) how can I spice things up without feeling onward under these circumstances ?


Brooke - posted on 04/12/2013




I would say that keeping things going with your husband comes under the class of "really needing" a sitter. I always felt like like I was imposing on family when asking them to sit, until the day my grandmother told me off for not letting her have the kids often enough. Then I realised that they actually WANT to baby sit. So ask your parents to watch the baby, even once a month, and go do something with your husband. Even a moonlit walk around the neighbourhood can be romantic, and it's free!

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