how to move on when d father of my baby left me

Phumelele - posted on 04/19/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




Hi I'm a 26yr old mother of a 5mnth old baby boy,I find it so hard 2move on aftr being firstly neglected throughout my whole pregnancy & left by d father of my baby,ever since the baby was born he's only seen him +/- 8times,he doesn't care at all,he's not there emotionally 4 d baby,all he does is send money & thts it,last time he saw d baby was 3mnths ago,he doesn't even call to check if the baby is alryt,I'm so inlove wit ths man,I forgave him for the trauma he put me through throughout my pregnancy,as he told me then tht he's married..I find it so hard to forget abt him,I'm not ready or strong enough to raise my boy alone,plz help I realy dnt knw wat to do plz!


Jodi - posted on 04/19/2014




Hey, you're better off than most. At least he is sending you money.

Is it possible he doesn't call to see how the baby is because you kind of get at him about your relationship any time you talk to him because you are still so inn love with him? Maybe it is you he is avoiding, not the baby? Or maybe he is just trying to fix his marriage?

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