Jean - posted on 06/06/2016 ( 14 moms have responded )
My 16 year old daughter met her 18 y/o BF 3 months ago thru arranged date by friends, a complete stranger never met him before not even a friend of her friends. At first I was excited cuz she's always had problems socializing . First date I told her she can only go out if the guy will pick
Her up at the house and come back before curfew, that didn't worked out well. He called her when he got to the front of the house and didn't even came out of the car even though I was at the door with my daughter and dropped her off almost an hour late without even coming inside. We confronted her and told her that we didn't liked the way it turned out . Conversations went on by text, not following curfews cuz she hasn't been too honest about our rules in the house . A week later she asked again if she can go out with him , this time he came and picked her up . At first I was happy with how it was going but then second date , the guy was already asking for just a date but some other stuff that involves just more than getting to know each other. At the beginning she was open to us but she's the type of person that's so gullible and will do anything to please others . She would tell us after the fact already . So nothing much we could do but talked her out of it. A month later he asked her to be her BF and said yes without even talking to us and reassured us that it was just a tittle. A week later something else happened told us after it was already done . A week later another thing happened this time we found out through text messages and guy convincing her to do more practice and do it somewhere more private as we found out they were doing . Since then the guy stopped coming to my truck after school . He would criticized our phone rules and judging our parenting rules, make her feel bad in a subtle way when he doesn't get his way . We tried talking to our daughter and tried to get her to talked but she would cover up everything . We tried talking to her that their relationship was too immature and too early to fully trust the guy but it's not working . The worst part now is their conversations are not through text anymore but through private message snap chat or Instagram where she can delete all and no trace of conversations to make us convinced that their not communicating . I don't know but I have a feeling that this guy is up to something not good .