How to set my baby free

Joanne - posted on 10/16/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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hi i lost my son in june this year he was born with brain damage and a poorly heart he was 33 weeks when he was born since the loss of my little boy me and my partner has split up now he wont let my baby rest he keeps taking things i leave for my baby and it hurts really badly police cant do any thing as its due to a family domestic what a joke i got my baby buried so his older sister and brothers could visit him and leave little gifts i am so regretting it now as my other children can even visit with out his say so its destroying them i have been thinking is it possible to rearrage my babys funeral to get him cremated to set him free from all this as i want him to be at peace can anyone help me as am so low i can't go on anymore

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Katrina - posted on 10/16/2012

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First off I'm very sorry for your lost!!

And I don't know the correct answer on changing thing but I can tell you this much. Your sweet boy is at peace he knows no different it is you and your other children that need the peace. If you understand what I'm saying. Your sons body still here but his spirit and just him himself are no longer, he no longer knows the pain he is no longer bothered by this.



To me it sounds as though the father needs help in dealing with the loss, that way you all can deal with the loss in the ways you need too. Grieving is healthy and good but it can also turn bad if dealt with wrongly.



Guess I'm saying don't worry about how/ if your son is free because he IS FREE now it's your turn as the family members to be free. Find what works for you, and if you can speak with the father maybe help him find help so he can grieve healthy now too.

Good luck honey

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