how to talk to my 8 yrs boy about his biologic father

Maria - posted on 09/01/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

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I am from mexico. My son is 8 yrs old. his biologic father was never in the picture . He never want me to have it cause he has an alcoholic problem. He was under his grandmother control. The women never like me cause I was a divorce girl. So it was hard to become a single mom. I run away from the all family attack. I met a guy when my son was 1 yr. And take me and my baby to United state. I been here for 7 yrs now and I was living with this man for all this years. My son believe he is his real dad. He is been awesome daddy very lovely and supporting but last year we split up and now he get married. We never married but we stay as a family all this time. Now he still part of his life he want it to keep be his dad and ib want it too. The think is my parents are pressure me to told him the truth. I don't know what to do because I have a call from his teacher telling me my kid is very distractive at school he is not putting attention and he like to full around at home also. He also as an attitude with me. He don't follow his regular activities like brush his tooth. He don't want it to eat. He don't want it to make homework. I will like some advice. It is a good time to told him about a biological man in a different coutry?? Some people say he has the attitude cause his daddy just married. So it will be very hard on him this new info? I don't know what to do.

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