Dee - posted on 07/16/2014 ( 7 moms have responded )
When my son married for the second time his wife already had a 14 month old little girl. Everyone has acted as if she is his and he really is! Her bio dad has never even seen her. My son has 2 children from his first marriage and the 9 yr old knows he had them with the first wife . My son and his second wife have had a son so she has a little brother. I am so worried about her not knowing! They have to tell her sometime but have been putting it off. I don't want her hurt or her whole world (as she knows it) explode when she finds out. She is very emotional, very sweet, and mature for a 9 year old. I mean, she talks like a grownup! I know it is going to confuse her and hurt her. She has my sons last name and she always has... What should they do??? Help!!!!!