Jane - posted on 02/19/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )
I have an 18 year old daughter who still lives at home. she brings home her boyfriend whom she has dated for 7 months whenever they meet. She doesn't even ask me if he can come over. She just notifies me the last minute and that drives my whole family nuts. Not just he invades but he is also anti-social. He doesn't try to make a small talk with anyone in the family. We tried to carry on a conversation and he just ends it with a simple yes or no. He won't even say hi unless my daughter tells him to do so. It's almost like my daughter is teaching a young child how to be social. We have seen him numerous times but we still feel like complete strangers. It's my daughter's personal choice to date him but no one in the family wants to see him. Is there a way to tell my daughter nicely not to bring him over?