Adriana - posted on 09/04/2016 ( 9 moms have responded )
Bio dad and me met when we were underage. I had my son at 18 and I decided to move in with bio dad so that we could both be in child's life and I thought it was for the best. Turned out it was not, bio dad was an abusive person toward me. Bio dad would sometimes hit me and tell and made me feel unsecured. After one year I finally had enough and left him. Afterward I met my now husbad and we decided to be a family we had a daughter and my son at 2 years started to call him daddy. We have kept this for 5 years. During the time I left the bio dad he kept looking for me to go back with him and we finally moved from the area. Also during that time I heard from certain family members that bio dad was asking around on how was the child. Now that my son is 7 bio dad has found me on Facebook and has constantly been messaging me that he wants to meet the child and have visitations with him. My question is how should I proceed to tell my son that his daddy isn't his bio dad and that bio dad now wants to see him. We have all kept it a secret but I want to tell him because everybody around him knows the truth except him. But daddy doesn't think its a good idea to tell my son and daddy doesn't want bio dad in his life. So I ambin between because I know that it's a matter of time before it all comes out and I'm afraid that by then my son might hate me for it.