how would you respond

Crystal - posted on 02/21/2015 ( 6 moms have responded )

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If your husband told you that he fell in love with you because of what kind of person you are not what you look like

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Gena - posted on 02/21/2015

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Got to agree,thats is a very good sign. Loving somebody for who they are is much better then loving somebody because they look "good". I always think like this, dont judge a book by ist cover and its the inside that Counts!!!

Michelle - posted on 02/21/2015

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My husband says that to me very often and it's great. I was smaller than I am now when we met but had my 3rd child in my 30's with him. I'm now 40 and he says he loves me more than when we married.
I would prefer a man that loves me for who I am, not what I looked like. That's true love.

Jodi - posted on 02/21/2015

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This is a GOOD reason to be in love with someone. If he had fallen in love with a person because of how they looked, that's superficial. I think he was trying to make the point that to him, he loves you anyway, regardless of your weight, and that weight and age don't matter to him. He loves you for who you are.

Dove - posted on 02/21/2015

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If he knows you are thinking about about your weight and age and stuff.... he was 'probably' trying to be supportive. I don't know him, so can't say for sure, of course.... but men don't usually see things the same way as a woman does.

Crystal - posted on 02/21/2015

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True I guess May have took it wrong I have really been working on losing weight for health reasons and doing well we were discussing my weight gain over the years and me having a birthday next week and being over forty and he made that comment and I was like is he not physically attracted to me I'm not usually insecure but I had thoughts

Dove - posted on 02/21/2015

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Isn't that kind of the point? Looks change. It's the person inside that counts.

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