Hubby more excited with babymother pregnancy not mines.

MrsLoveanle09 - posted on 03/27/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I feel alone and unimportant every attempt I made has made me feel like he done it all with her but not me his wife why treat me badly when she one who took kids and left but I given him 3 daughter she see everyday I feel like maybe I shouldn't have .

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MrsLoveanle09 - posted on 03/28/2016

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Thank u so much I thought it was me I understand they have kids but I feel like there's no need for him treat me and my pregnancys I had with our daughters less special being that she had his 1 st son and 1st daughter he make me feel like a option not a priority I'm on verge of just walking away after 10 years I refuse to play second to anyone when I always kept him 1st .

Raye - posted on 03/28/2016

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Well, there's two issues here. First is about your husband and the children he has with his ex. You must understand that they have kids together and she will always be a part of his life. BUT, his ex might be manipulating him and using the kids as leverage to get more attention from him. If your husband does not have court orders for visitation of his kids, so he knows what his legal rights are, then he should get them. That way, the ex won't be holding all the cards, and he can limit his interaction with her to only what is necessary for the kids.

The second problem is that he doesn't make you feel like a priority in his life. You should both sit down and talk about each of your wants and needs in the relationship. It might not be romantic to ask him to give you attention... he should just want to do it... but some men need it to be spelled out for them. If he doesn't want to change and keeps taking and not giving you anything in return, then maybe it's no longer a relationship you want to continue in. You can only beat your head against a wall so long before either the wall breaks or you do.

MrsLoveanle09 - posted on 03/28/2016

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He had 2 kids with her before we meet we have 3 daughters after we was married he never showed interest in my pregnancy but yet he bend over backwards for her when she was pregnant and she doesn't allow him see the kids at all matter she was married to someone else while they was dating I'm his wife yet I feel like I'm not valued as such!

Raye - posted on 03/28/2016

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I don't understand your post. You have three kids with this man? How many kids does he have with his ex? Is she currently pregnant with his child? If so, why do you even want to still be with him. If the baby's not his, why is he so interested in her pregnancy? It doesn't sound like you have a good relationship with this man.

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