Husband allowing baby mama to come between us by entertaining her.

Genevieve - posted on 04/15/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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dating for 8 years married for have a child .... he has a another child 9 yrs old from his ex girlfriend . she constantly sms him and he always responds, he has told her numerous times that she must only contact him reagrding the child she persists in sms and calling and chatting via watsapp... i feel because he replies or ignores and isnt straight with there then she will never stop or am i wrong. he isnt a bad person meaning he doesnt want to be rude to her that would let her keep their child away from him... but by entertaining her isnt good either she has had numerous relationships and nothing last why... she is still inlove with him but he doesnt see it in that way... the calls are sometimes regarding the child most of the time not at all general conversations like i miss my late nephew who died, or my sister or i am so emtional today,,,, if she had a boyfriend like she say she does then he should be her comforter not my husband..... HELP PLEASE BEFORE I WALK OUT OF THIS MARRIAGE.... AS MY HUSBAND JUST ENTERTAINS HER. what should i do

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Genevieve - posted on 04/15/2014

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true and yes i did and he does stop however she is persistent does any and everything to get his attention even resorts to going to his parents and says he is ignoring her and she wants to discuss important things regarding there child....

Gena - posted on 04/15/2014

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Have you talked to him and told him how it makes you feel?Why does he do it?If he loves and respects you he could really stop entertaining her with subject that dont involve their child.

Genevieve - posted on 04/15/2014

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Hi Genevieve thank you very much that's is true hey i have told her myself already but because he doesn't step up and just feel ignoring her at times will resolve the situation its does not help at all.
i also feel she is not fully to be blamed if he doesn't put a stop to this it will go on forever i respect her as the child mother enough not in interfere when it comes to their child i know my place but she clearly doesn't and neither does he.

Gena - posted on 04/15/2014

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Hi Genevieve,My name is also Geneviève :) I understand your concernes,i think you should tell him that he should stop replying if its got nothing to do with the child.Or maybe even you could tell her that she should only contact your husband if it has something to do with their child. She should accept the fact that he is married to YOU,and not her.She should move on and only contact when its about their child.I dont see why she must text everyday about random things that hasnt got anything to do with their child.Its ok that they get along for the childs sake,but there should be limits on what and how often she text messages him.She should respect that he is a married man and not interfere in your relationship.Good luck

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