Yesi - posted on 04/27/2016 ( 6 moms have responded )
Help me and my husband are constantly fighting because of my 6 year old daughter. The last fight was because she didnt want to read a book because her eyes supposidly hurt after my mother ans father and law arrived to my house. I told her fine but that it was 8:30pm and to get in the shower and to bed becuase she had school tomorrow. She threw a tantrum and made herself throw up and i was very upset and spanked her and told her the way she was acting was wrong. My husband was like why did you hit her in front of my parents and my mother in law was like your crazy whats wrong with you and I told her my daughter shouldnt be acting like that instead of ya helping me with the kids ya are always judging me. My house is always clean, the kids are clean, well fed and everything I do is always wrong. They told me I was crazy and for me to shut the f up. And yelled back telling them stuff as well. At the end my mother and father in law left my house and my husband was like you are crazy and need to get out of my house and get a job. I told him no that he would call the cops on me and get me for abandonment. We have been fighting for awhile now because my daughter ill tell her no for something and she will ask my husband and he will say yes and teh she comes to me like jajaja mom i got what i wanted anway. Ive talked to him about it but he doesnt want to deal with her and hear her cry so he tells her yes. My son 2 years ols is also a handful but is less trouble and listens to me but when my husband is around he cries til my husband get tired and gives him what he wants as well. I told him to leave him or tell him he has to behave and stay in the cart when we are grocery shopping but he ends up taking him out and he has dropped things and made messes and people look at me like lady get your kids but i dont know how to control them when i try to educate them and discipline them when my husband does the opposite just so they dont cry and bother him.