Sheri - posted on 11/04/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
My husband and I got married in 2006 and we both have 2 kids. 3 are in college and the youngest is a senior in high school. My husband shut me out of his kids relationship and daily activities about 3 years ago and I constantly asked why and I told him a few times before all of this started that I was getting tired. I worked 10 hour days and my 2 kids were very active in sports and club activities. I asked him for help like with dinner, cleansing ect...we have his kids 3 to 5 days a week. It switches weekly. I have mine full time. When I asked for help he told his kids this and told them to not call or text me anything and I just found this out. That is why we lost communication. In the meantime he is talking to his ex all the time and she is hanging out with my sister in-law and going on trips.
Basically I asked my husband whist the issues are for 3 years with me and him and his family.They have all shut me out. We are seperated and trying to work on our marriage and his family just treats me horrible. I don't know if I can continue to do this. I'm mentally and physically exhausted. The youngest my daughter was in a horrible car accident last November and she lost her 2 best friends in the accident and she lost her right arm. My husband and his family have shown no support or anything about this. It has changed me but I don't even have a husband to lean on. He left.