Default - posted on 04/07/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
Stressed out need to vent.
Please make this make sense. My husband and I have problems. If you haven't read my post about my medical condition you really need to before I start venting HEAVILY it is called "Husband requires dr.s note to stop sex" I really appreciate you alls support on that one.
I have a new problem to present. Now we found a counselor and decided were going to set up a date. Now today he is telling me that he has been seeing his childs mother. He told me he was over there because she cares for/ likes him and it felt good to receive some attention from her. He then went on to say that he would like to keep seeing her. He is tired of us. He wants love and care. Our relationship didn't start going south until we stopped having sex. I cant control the fact that I have a medical condition and he wont take hj, or bjs.
How is a relationship to be repaired when others are added into the mix. I have NEVER introduced a male into our relationship. Our problems will only become worse if other people are added. It sounds to me that he will likely end of sleeping with her because in what universe do men just go over womens houses to hug and hold them? I recognize we have problems. Why when we start seeking help does he add to them? Someone help me. I'm livid.