Ashley - posted on 11/05/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
My husband of 4 years had an affair with my supposed best friend for a year. I never saw it coming. We separated when I found out and the baby was born. We have since decided to throw our divorce away and are trying to fight for our marriage. We have a son together, I have a daughter from a previous relationship that he has been around since she was 6 months old. I also have an amazing bonus baby (step daughter) that I have been around since she was 18 months old. I realize the baby born out of the affair is innocent. But the mother of the child, supposed best friend, will not let my husband have the child. She says she doesn't feel comfortable with him having the baby. I have been friends with this woman for 10+ years, so I know she doesn't question his parenting abilities. She wants to be there when he has the baby. I don't know what to do...I feel like I am keeping my husband from his child, but I have boundaries. Help please!