Husband In The Middle Of Drama! AGAIN!

Lacye - posted on 11/04/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




My husband is being dragged into the middle of drama (AGAIN!).

Just a little background on the situation. My husband has been at his job for over 5 years. There was one particular coworker of his that I absolutely hated (and I don't throw that word around lightly). This female (she's not worthy enough to be called a woman) used to chase after my husband when he was with his ex. As a matter of fact, he had cheated on his ex with this ho before I came into the picture. So in the end, I met my husband and at the time he and I were just friends. The ho told his ex that he was sleeping with me (we weren't). So the ex bitch leaves and hubby decides he wanted to be with me (obviously since he is now my hubby). Anyways! So the ho ends up meeting another guy and she gets married. They are happy for a while and end up having a child together.

Fast forward about a year or so, the ho is talking to my husband about one of their other coworkers, who is also married! The other coworker and the ho end up having an affair. OK whatever. Not my problem. The ho's husband finds out after the ho ends up pregnant with the second child (who to me looks like the coworker!). She ends up getting fired because she was constantly coming in and the relationship with the coworker ends.

Out of the blue yesterday the ho starts messaging my husband on facebook. I don't really care because 1. he told me and 2. he has done said she doesn't compare to me. So hubby decides to find out what it is she wants because she never talks to him. Sure enough, she wants my husband to talk to the coworker for her to get the dude to talk to her again! Now she is still married to her husband. He already doesn't trust her. She had to make a fake Yahoo name so he wouldn't find out her and hubby were talking about it. I told my husband to stay out of it. I told him that it's going to blow up like it did last time and we are going to be in the middle of drama again (which I cannot take because I'm 27 weeks pregnant and really don't need the drama or the stress that's going to come with it). But hubby doesn't listen to me. He decides to tell the coworker what the stupid ho said! I know how this is going to end up. I'm not liking it and I'm not going to cover the coworker's ass like I did last time! I swear to God if this shit goes on like it did last time, I will so tell the dude's wife and the ho's husband!


View replies by

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/04/2012




Yeah, your husband has no business getting involved. You are right. This women can be in charge of ruining her own life. Sorry you are dealing with this Lacye. Maybe she was bothering your husband more than you know and he may have done it to shut her up. Either way, they should not be talking.

Rachel - posted on 11/04/2012




Wow... she sound like a real skank.

I would have been pissed at my husband for getting in the middle, even when I asked him not to.

Why does he feel like he needs to relay any messages for her? She needs to find some other way to get in touch with that guy.

If I were you, I'd message her myself and tell her to stop contacting your husband, of you'll be contacting hers.

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms