Anita - posted on 12/18/2015 ( 6 moms have responded )
We have been married just over 4 years. Last 3 years hubby has believed his son over his daughter and I at every turn. We have had fights about allof it. Last May he apologized then this year the whole thing starts again. I get calls from school because hubby wont answer phone yet when I do and tell him what stepson is doing, he calls me a liar. He calls me names in front of stepson, yellls, throws things and breaks things in front of HIM, even accusing me of ME being the only problem in sons life.
Josh has stolen items, bullied handicapped kids, his loyal friend whos Mom dying of cancer, girls by inappopriate touch and belittling. His Father is told and he yells at me in front of his son saying Joshs ONLY problem me, even breaking things in front of him and saying it is my fault for his actions because I MADE HIM MAD
I am leaving because I have stuck it out for last 4 years with hubby only growing meaner and more heartless! He tells me I am getting what I deserve because I am a piece of poop in his eyes. Tired of the abuse, wish he would have acted this way dating him but he hid it until after we got married. He even grounds me from intimacy with him, from driving by making me pay him to go 15 miles a whopping ten dollars when car uses maybe 3 dollars. refuses to correct son when he mouths off to me or anyone else BUT HIM, or if he doesnt do chores or he lies about anything..no punishment at all!
He tells me his son cant help his behavior and that he doesnt mouth off, I tell lies about that too with my hubby right there hearing it all!! I am leaving as soon as I find a place..SICK OF ALL OF IT... CONTROLLING< BLAMING AND HATEFUL!!!