Husband/kids

Lauren - posted on 05/02/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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So my husband does not want anymore babies and I do I would at least one more we have a 3 year old now and I think we should have another well he just told me tonight I can't even handle one why should we have more I do babysit other kids another 3 year old and a 5 year and all the kids at once that gets to be to much at times but If we have more I will not be watching other kids cuz that would just drive me nuts!!! I I'm just really upset about this whole situation I honestly don't know If I can stay with him If we are not going to have anymore kids we did have some problems a few months back (but what couple dosen't) he was telling me like a month ago that he wanted more and lets have more and now all of a sudden hes saying no again I don't know what to do and I'm going to be 24 and I do not wanna wait to have more kids I wanna keep them close together I just feel like hes playing with my emotions and I just don't know what to do I try talking to him about it but hes not one to "talk" about things like that he just says stupid stuff like you can't handle anymore kids or I didn't even want one and we had one I honestly feel like I can't keep being married if he keeps playing with my emotions like this! Please help sorry If I am rambling I am very upset about this! Please help!!??

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Lauren - posted on 05/03/2012

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Yes I considered that but he won't go thats another thing he dosen't wanna pay for that and I told him that we can go to our pastor at church or another pastor then we don't have to pay! I very frustrated I guess tonight or one night I need to sit him down and make him really listen to me I just feel like he dosen't care but he is one of those guys who thigns bother him but he acts tough on the outside so I'm thinking maybe its something I said or did that made him change his mind....idk

Catalina - posted on 05/02/2012

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I doesn't sound like the two of you are on the same page.

Have you considered couples therapy?

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