husband left says he was not happy

Lee - posted on 11/19/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My husbad recently just left with with 2 kids and he says he was not happy and that we fight all the time,i told him all couples fight and even if he marries again he will still fight.i came to work when I came back he packed all his stuff and left to Limpopo.the next week I took a taxi home to try and sort things our and it worked and a week later he was just quite when I ask why he said it will never work.he came to see the kids but was sleeping at a friend's place.his mom said I must just be patient he is still healing.One day I got hold of his fb password and to find he was flirting with his ex.my husband is unemployed but has a business which just went down but he is a hard worker.he pays rent for us and sends money for the kids.i told him not to call me anymore or text me but he refused that he said it will never happen.he said he would get back to me when he got a full time job.i mean getting a job is in God's time how long will I waite.i love him and I need to move on but the problem is the first child is not his the daddy passed away and now I have his babby and my problem is which man would love a women with 2 kids with different fathers already.

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[momoftwo] - posted on 11/20/2013

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Oh yes definitely. Most guys can't handle it so their first reaction is to run lol. And if he left you because of his ex he should realize he wasn't happy with her either. She is an "ex" after all.

Lee - posted on 11/19/2013

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Thank you, I also agree to that and if I was what he wanted we would have tried to solve our problems not run away .but running away showed me that in future when more problems come he will still run away.

[momoftwo] - posted on 11/19/2013

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Okay first of all, don't think about yourself like that. There are all sorts of nice guys out there that will love you and your children no matter the circumstances. It's not like you were sleeping around, I mean you know who your child's fathers are but my point is you will find the right man and I'm happy to hear you want to move on because no matter what your husband was cheating whether it was flirting or physically touching and you and the kids deserve better than that.
It will take some time but when you are ready, to out and mingle :)

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