Husband lives out of state having trust issues hes texting another girl

Cecilia - posted on 10/16/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )

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So about a month ago the husband and I decided we wanted to give our marriage another try but then I saw he was texting a female friend who he claims is only a friend from our hometown of KC. He lives in Dallas I live in Las Vegas with our 3 year old son, now he stopped texting this girl for a while but he started again today and he acts like he's mad at me and I didn't do anything to him I suspected he was doing something cause he wasn't responding to my texts or phone calls. Now do I have a right to say to him her or me? Should I make him stop texting this person who I texted before and she calls me a bitch when I have never disrespected her but politely asked her to stop texting him back and to ignore it. I have serious trust issues and it keeps me up at night and makes me sick. I got rid of all my guy friends that were potentially more and I stayed off of facebook and twitter because I truly wanted to be better. I want to send him a text saying her or me and sign my divorce papers how should I approach this without pushing him away from me ?.?? I know sometimes I can be overbearing by texting or calling too much but if thats the issue he should tell me not ignore me and text someone else. even though this person has a bf and 2 kids it makes me uncomfortable I also have control issues like my husband does. I haven't seen him in over 2 months and he's supposed to be visiting in 2 weeks should I let it go and just trust him or do I make it a BIG issue? I don't wanna seem desperate but I will let him know I can see when he texts her and he knows this and maybe I should ignore him???

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Sharlene - posted on 10/17/2011

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YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO TELL HIM TO STOP TEXTING THIS OTHER FEMALE AND YOU COULD TELL HER AGAIN IN A NICE MANNER LIKE U DID,IF YOUR HUSBAND IS WILLING TO GIVE YOUR MARRIAGE OTHER TRY THEN BELIEVE HIM BUT YOU NEED TO MAKE IT CLEAR TO HIM HE HAS TO STIP TEXTING THIS OTHER WOMEN,A ND DARLS I DO THE SAME TO MY HUBBIE TEXTING AND PHONE TO THEY LOVE IT .ALL THE BEST AND I HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR BOTH OF YOUS

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