Cecilia - posted on 10/16/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )
So about a month ago the husband and I decided we wanted to give our marriage another try but then I saw he was texting a female friend who he claims is only a friend from our hometown of KC. He lives in Dallas I live in Las Vegas with our 3 year old son, now he stopped texting this girl for a while but he started again today and he acts like he's mad at me and I didn't do anything to him I suspected he was doing something cause he wasn't responding to my texts or phone calls. Now do I have a right to say to him her or me? Should I make him stop texting this person who I texted before and she calls me a bitch when I have never disrespected her but politely asked her to stop texting him back and to ignore it. I have serious trust issues and it keeps me up at night and makes me sick. I got rid of all my guy friends that were potentially more and I stayed off of facebook and twitter because I truly wanted to be better. I want to send him a text saying her or me and sign my divorce papers how should I approach this without pushing him away from me ?.?? I know sometimes I can be overbearing by texting or calling too much but if thats the issue he should tell me not ignore me and text someone else. even though this person has a bf and 2 kids it makes me uncomfortable I also have control issues like my husband does. I haven't seen him in over 2 months and he's supposed to be visiting in 2 weeks should I let it go and just trust him or do I make it a BIG issue? I don't wanna seem desperate but I will let him know I can see when he texts her and he knows this and maybe I should ignore him???