Donna - posted on 09/03/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hi. I'm expecting my first baby. My husband has recently created his own small business and he works maaany hours. Let's say from 8.am until 9-10 p.m. What makes me really frustrated is that when he finishes work he almost every day 7 days a week makes up plans. Eg to go to the beach, hunting, fishing even to music concert. I don't understand why a man who works so long and loves his wife does not try at all to spend time with her. I am suppose to stay home due to contractions. Also, for the last 3 months I am waiting for him to paint the house and prepare nursery room (it will take him maximum 8 hours altogether to do those two tasks). Am I right to be disappointed and sad? I talked to him he said he loves me and of course he wants to spend time with me, but never does so on action. I also asked him if am pushing him or being boring etc and laughed and said of course not. Thank you.