Husband or "Blood Pack"

Sam - posted on 05/25/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




We been together for about 4 yrs and have a 1 yr old together.We married 5 months ago and im regretting it.Between the time I had our baby and moving from one state to another,and living together is...well.Between his first wife(his extremly demanding job)our baby,my anxiety,his very scarey epilepsy(which happens when he's sleep deprived)and me always home,I cant say any of those things are the reason i want to leave.For a while i feel like im married because we fought a hard war together and its my duty as a blood packer to stay!How can we go through so much just for me to catch an attitude when he breathes when that use to highlight my day?Am I just use to us being together?It would hurt to lose him but why when i don't love him anymore?Is he my husband...or are we in a " Blood pack"


Raye - posted on 05/26/2015




There is loving someone, and then there is being "in love with" someone. You can love him and not be in love with him. Many couples go through tough times where they are not as in love with their partner as they once were. If you still care for him and want to make the marriage work, you have to find ways to reconnect and get that in love feeling back. It can come back.

I don't know what you mean by "blood pack", but you are now forever tied to him because you have a child together. That doesn't mean that you have to stay married if you are truly unhappy and can't make the marriage work. It does mean that you have to communicate with him regarding his child for the next 17 years, at least.

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