Default - posted on 03/31/2015 ( 29 moms have responded )
Now that I have your attention disregard the title.
I have been having horrible pains with intercourse for 3 years now. I told my husband REPEATEDLY even offered other things. I have been to the obgyn several times and they kept telling me to use lube. I recently saw a specialist and she diagnosed me with desquamative inflammatory vaginitis. She said I had likely had it the ENTIRE time. Once I reported this news he apologized said he didn't know it was that serious and said he wouldn't ask anymore. The problem that I have with this is that I have been complaining of sex and he only acknowledges that something is really wrong after I get a dr.s confirmation.
Isn't this a jackass move? Like can men really plead ignorance and all the pain they have caused is removed? I don't have any respect for him anymore since a total lack of concern for my body just went on for 3 years now.