Kathryn - posted on 04/29/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
My husband of 14 yrs had a 6+month affair with a 24 yr old he works with (he is 41). I found out that he was havving an affair and that she was pregnant all in the same moment. She had a baby girl and paternity proved to be his. I had him court ordered to move out b/c I couldnt stand the hurt and betrayl, btw we have a 4,6,8 children of our own. after a yr of seperation I gave him a second chance, for the kids sake really. They dont deserve a broken family and I do love him. He has been back in the home for 8 months and now the babys momma has taken him to court for child support. He has to pay 900.00 a month and will see the child ( 14 months old now) everyother weekend and once a week. Although things b/w us are somewhat better, I am so resentful of all the money going out to this girl and what emotional harm having this baby in and out of our family, will do to my children. I tried to make it work, but I dont think I can handle all these additional factors that are and will play into our lives from now on. We dont have that kind of extra money, and I cant stand the thought of having to deal with the babys momma. HELP??!