Mel - posted on 12/17/2010 ( 85 moms have responded )
Thank you all for your encouragement, honesty and prayers. i just wanted to update you all and let you know I am currently with my children elsewhere with family. I couldn't bear what had transpired and late last night we were packed up and gone. Just for the record i was NOT at home when this all went down i was at the dr, he is NEVER with the kids alone because he hasn't felt he had the skill set to deal with all situations that arise, and normally would leave the situation completely when getting really frustrated and angry. That is our deal. But it still didn't stop me from being sometimes scared by the intensity of his emotions. There was NOT EVER any hitting on the head, he kept repeatedly smacking him on the leg (still COMPLETELY unnacceptable); but it does not change what happened or what was said, or the fact that the other adult in the house at the time felt they could not help or control the situation that had arrisen. If there was ever any hitting on the head there wouldn't be a hole deep enough to bury him in. But we have gone, cause as i explained yesterday, the whole deal is toxic, and for him to even do this once is enough for me to say you are no longer safe. Thanks everyone. I will update next when i get the chance.