Joanna - posted on 09/13/2012 ( 13 moms have responded )
We have been married about six months, and together about 2 years. I found out that we are expecting our first child together, so obviously my emotions are a little crazy. I have a 4 year old from a previous relationship, and my 4 year old biological father does not see him. I love my 4 year old more than anything, obviously our bond is undeniable because I am his only parent. When my husband and I first bought our house there was a lot of work to be done, we decided that it was better while all of it was going on it would be better for my 4 year old to stay at grandpa's until the remodel was all done. The time came it was all finished, and I have set up his room and it has sat empty. Every time I bring up moving him in for good, he says I am shoving him down his throat... how? He is part of the package with me. I recently left my husband because I feel so guilty about my son not being there all the time, and it isn't fair I have to choose. I am staying with my dad with my son... I am expecting, and my husband now tells me that if we divorce he is going to sign over all rights to our child. My husband says I am choosing my son over him, and I do not care for him at all. He keeps telling me he can find a girlfriend that will never do this to him, and make him a priority. He has a daughter from a previous relationship, and I have never once said I don't want her around. My kids always will come first.. I am scared to have 2 by 2 different dads...but I have also been relieved. I no longer am a slave to his emotions, and how he feels. I guess I needed to vent... but I just want to know I am right in my thinking...?? Is there any way to repair a relationship with him? I don't think I can forgive him for being the way he is, and how he feels so jealous of my son.