husband wants to leave

Julie - posted on 03/06/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My husband of 8 years just informed me he wants to leave me because his kids 17 and 20 won't come to visit and I think it is because their mom filled them with lies. I gave them all my love and welcomed them in to my home. My husband became the dad to my boys and now he just wants to call it done. I don't understand why he would give up a wonderful relationship just to maybe see his grown kids 2 times a year. He says he loves me and it is tearing him apart but it is killing me. I am so hurt and broken hearted. He has built wonderful relationships with my kids. I want to work it out but I kind of feel resentful now and have gone into defense mode. Any help would be appriciated.

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Julie - posted on 03/06/2015

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Oh, I guess I left that part out. I told him if they don't want to see me that's fine and he could get a hotel and spent time with him alone or he could go to there state and spend time. I have been totally supportive and even told him when they didn't want to come that he needed to make them and i would leave. I have never been able to have a relationship with my stepkids and it is breaking my heart. My husband and his ex just wouldn't let it happen. I am a good mom and would have been a great stepmom.

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