Bre - posted on 06/14/2016 ( 10 moms have responded )
So, my husband and I have had many problems since we got married. We have only been married a little over a year.
He has been very hard to deal with since then, and has only gotten worse after our daughter was born 9 months ago.
We both know he has been emotionally abusive to me for months now. He just realized this the other day after a fight in which I came out and finally told him. he acted as if he didn't know at all how he was treating me.
He has now been aware that he has a mental illness.
He wants my support, but after all of the treatment he has given me the past year, I am finding it even hard to want to stay. I am trying to be supportive of him getting help, but I am still afraid that it wont help the way he treats me.
But, I feel guilty if I leave him at this rough point in his life. He is fighting to correct his behavior, quit his addiction, and be better.
I guess I just feel like I have nothing left to give him at this point.
I am scared he won't get any better. He told me this morning that "I should know how some things bother him, and I should make sure they don't happen so he wont get upset and ruin his day". I just sat there asking myself what??
I could really use some advice and support here. I am miserable, and hate even having our daughter in this situation. :(