Angelic - posted on 10/26/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )
My husband found out this lady was cheating on him back in the day and kicked her out. She ended up pregnant but after the baby was born refused him a paternity test and left the state. Fast forwarded almost 19 years ( we have been together 13 years) and the daughter contacts him via Facebook. We get the test and it 98.98999% positive! At first it seemed she was exited via texts to start talking to us because we want to be fully involved! But before our initial phone call, she stated she needed more time and space and would call us when she was ready. Meanwhile we are both devastated at the time lost and are so anxious to talk to her and get to know her we can hardly sleep. Meeting is out of the question because she is half way across the states! We already love this girl. What should we do?