Husbands of Flight Attendants who cheat with Pilots.

Larry - posted on 02/05/2014 ( 7 moms have responded )

4

0

0

Hi Moms, I sorry to have to ask on a site that is geared for Moms with cheating husbands whom are pilots. I am a husband that just lost the love of his life to a pilot. She and Her work for Delta Airlines. I am to say the least, devastated. I cannot function or focus on anything. My heart has been ripped out and my world with my wife is gone.

Is there anyone that knows of how to help me, one, find how to cope, and second how to go about any kind of reprimands Delta can dish out? I'm lost and very confused and really need help going forward.

Larry
586.615.3636
Lawrence@policespecial.com

MOST HELPFUL POSTS

Randy - posted on 03/12/2014

1

0

0

Simply go beat the crap out of him. I had my chance with my cheating whores pilot boyfriend but had kids at home that I am responsible for since their mother is getting laid on her Jet Blue "laid overs" up and down the east coast. I felt the exact same as you and it has taken me a full year to somewhat get my sanity back. I still want her back desperately. I wish I had went on and beat the crap out of him in JAX when I caught them checking in together in the crew hotel. was married for 21 1/2 years and together for over almost 26 years with a son and daughter 12 & 14. Something has happened to her to give up her family for her career and boyfriend. She calls herself a mother when she comes to "visit" her children 1 1/2 to 2 days per week. Dude it is tough, I have never hurt so bad in my life. She was also my one and only love. Everyone says to move on and find someone better but it's just not that easy. I have now had a few women in bed over the past 2 months and all I can see is her and pretending it's her while I am having sex with these women. it just plain sucks. All I can say is good luck. Kick her ass out and beat his. Had I done this when I found out I would probably be back together with Tracy now. Don't lose your mind dude because you will make the situation worse and she will never come back. I tried to be a loving and understanding husband because I still love her and wanted to keep my family together instead she just kept kicking me in the gut and sleeping with Dave Link. He is a little red headed troll and I hope he and Tracy live in misery for screwing up their families and kids lives. You will get charged with assault if you beat his ass but a good lawyer will get it dismissed because of the mentall stress you are under. I hope your wife does not have a friend named Katie, another Delta whore, she knew my wife was having an affair and encouraged her to continue. I thought she was a friend since I have known her as long as Tracy but she proved herself to be just another divorced cheating whore flight attendant. If you guys get back together you are screwed either way. #1 you will never trust her while she is flying, #2 make her quit her job and she will become board because she is not in a nice hotel each night having drinks with the crew and being totally irresponsible and will leave you anyway plus resent you for making her quit, #3 she's just another cheating whore who needs the stupiud slapped out of her and maybe she come to her senses but that won't happen because we live in a throw away society these days including our marriages. Find a way to redirect your energy, start with beating his ass, that will most likely get rid of your anger and make it much easier for you to tell her to go to hell and find a new direction in life.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/05/2014

13,211

21

2014

And, I'll leave YOU with this, Larry,

Your prayers are your business. I do not need your prayers, because I'm fine, thank you very much.

Your life is not my business, but you brought it into a forum that I'm a member of. I'm not a member because I'm divorced, or because I'm bitter, but because I AM A MOTHER. And, this site is very definitely named CIRCLE OF MOMS.

You 'assumed' that this was a grieving spouse website. It's not. You offended by your very first statement of assumption. Well, I'm sorry that you have little to no comprehension of the words FOR MOMS, or BY MOMS

Seriously? You're looking ONLINE to find someone to tell you that your desire for some sort of retribution through your ex's employee is a valid desire, and that you're right in your wishes to retaliate via her employer, but you're not right in that desire, not in my opinion.

And, if you really wanted to find out what Delta can do about Delta employees screwing around in the Mile High club...why don't you file a grievance with Delta? Seriously, we cannot help you with the fact that your wife left you for another man.

While I am not bitter, I am frustrated with the number of men who fail to comprehend that this website is not for them and their marriage problems, but for mothers and their child rearing and related problems.

Now, if you were a single dad, with a conundrum about your teenage daughter...we'd be happy to help. But we're not marriage counselors, nor are we here to validate your feelings.

This conversation has been closed to further comments

7 Comments

View replies by

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/13/2014

21,273

9

3058

Ummm....yeah.....locking this thread down tight. WOWZA!

Larry - posted on 02/05/2014

4

0

0

Thank you Shawnn for your compassion. You really know how to make a human being feel when they are trying to reach out no matter what blog. There are several blogs here that I have read about grieving mothers and their cheating pilot husbands.

So I am going to leave you with this. Please unless you can help, be nice or kind and understanding, maybe you should not say anything at all. You seen very callus and bitter.

I will pray for you.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/05/2014

13,211

21

2014

Larry, how did you NOT see this (Quote from your OP)

"Hi Moms, I sorry to have to ask on a site that is geared for Moms with cheating husbands whom are pilots"

You are assuming that this website is for women who've been in that situation. Sorry, this is not it.

Get counseling. And, FYI, unless the airline policies specifically state that fraternization between employees is forbidden, I doubt you'll get far.

If you want to do something to the airline, don't use them when you travel.

Larry - posted on 02/05/2014

4

0

0

Shawnn, I don't understand why you think I'm assuming anything or that to be offensive assumption. I in no way trying to offend anyone. I am human too and like the Moms I feel for their pain as well. I'm just trying to find some sort of help. By posting this I would think that someone would know how to approach an Airline regardless of Wives/Mons or Husbands that have been in this situation.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/05/2014

13,211

21

2014

I'm sorry that you felt the need to assume that, since we are a supportive site for Moms, that we are 'geared towards moms with cheating husbands who are pilots'. That's actually quite an offensive assumption.

Get counseling. That's my recommendation for you. That, and find a site for men who've been dumped by their cheating wives for the pilots that they fly with...because this ain't it.

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms