Nancy - posted on 04/21/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
My husband and I, after almost 2 years, adopted our grandchildren. Parental rights were terminated. Bio mom has had no contact since the adoption. The problem is my son, their paternal father. He still thinks of them as his children. He's been incarcerated for the past 3 years, the children are now 3 & 51/2. The little one obviously has no memory of him, know us as Mom and Dad. The older one remembers his father, although he does refer to us as Mom and Dad. My son will be released in 2 years and IF he becomes an asset to society I would like to welcome him back into the family. How? How do I handle this when he still thinks he's the father? I'm so confused and need some advice.