I am 28 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend left me. I dont know how to tell or what to do. Ive already been down this road before with my son who is now 3. Im am devasted and and terrified of going through this all over again. What can I do? Are there any options?
Betta - posted on 11/26/2012
Mine is a simialr situation. Me and my ex are both addicts as well and neither one of us have been clean for very long. I have talked to my Dr about my addiction and I got clean. Well I relpased one night and told my ex to be honest with him mind you when i relpased he had only been clean for 5 days. He left me kicked me out of the house and tried to take my car from me. He keeps starting bs and calling me a junkie and saying how he is going to take this baby from me etc. My 3 year old's dad is a dead beat and I get no help from him whatsoever. I dont want to go through this again i dont know if I can do it. Im only 22 years old and I feel like a beat down mom. I raised my 3 year old all on my own and now I have to do that again with this one. Im afraid i wont be able to handle 2 kids and I get more and more scared as the days past. I have no idea what to do or how to even handle the situation. No I live in Jersey by the way.
Tabitha - posted on 11/26/2012
hi i am 38 weeks pregnant and at my 36 week appointment i found out my husband was lying to me about everything , he has been working two jobs one as a mechanic and then got a nite job at a gas station, i have susspected that he has been doing meth, we are both ex addicts. he has been telling me the phone at the gas station did not work for three weeks but at my 36 week appointment his boss called my phone to fire him for his actions which include they all know he was doing meth, constantlty on the phone, and guess what not with me, he told his boss he has had sex with someone else , he has been lying about smoking for like two months and we both cold turkeyed smoking last christmas. i have a nine year old daughter and a six year daughter and now pregnagnt with my first son which by the way i did not want any more kids. i packed up and moved to my grandmas, i have so much more to it , i have been through so much that i push men, i told him from day one that i push and i in march i started drinking a lot and statrted to talk to someone else , i ended up kissing him, any way i told my husband about it all and was honest , he said he forgave me and it was over , now all of a sudden he does not forgive me and thats why he is doing this and now i am alone with two kids and pregnant and i am so sad and depressed i feel like dying, i love him more than anything and i feel like i deserve this , sorry this probably does not help, just venting and letting you know you are not alone , and you got this , i know how it feels to start all over again, i just got my life back berore him and now i am at square one again now with a new baby do you live in colorado by chance
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