I am 52 and just don't find myself sexy anymore. My husband keeps teling me I still am the sexy girl he married but that is not what I see. I love him so much but the physical part is not really there for me anymore. Any suggestions Terri


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Raye - posted on 02/06/2015




If you're not happy with yourself, then you need to do something about it instead of complaining. I have some extra weight around my tummy and I sometimes feel like a fat slob, and it's my fault I'm that way because I don't do anything about it. My husband tells me I'm sexy all the time. Your husband loves you, so he's still going to find you desirable.

If "the physical part is not really there" for you anymore, then that's a problem. Intimacy is an important part of a marriage. Find ways to try to physically reconnect that's not just about sex. Hold hands, give back rubs, cuddle on the couch, always kiss good morning/hello/goodbye, etc. See if that helps you get back into an amorous mood. You might need counseling or hormone therapy or something else to help you get back in the swing of things.

Sue - posted on 02/06/2015




Terri your husband love you no matter what you look like now... I feel the same way too.
I believe that i need to go to back to the gym and get myself back in shape. I do look at
Myself feeling ugly every day. i believe we need to do something for ourselves every now and than... So pamper yourself today..

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