Matthew G - posted on 03/09/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
I have my children every weekend, sometimes 2-5 days out of the week. My two boys act up, do not listen to my rules and act ugly as sin "foul mouths, rude gestures, idgaf attitudes, want want want give me give me give me, overly rough when playing " kids are kids" but they go toe to toe like me in my brawling days, whiney, disrespectful, cry for mama, Nana, and papa when they are disciplined, laugh at me when I talk to them and explain what they are doing wrong. By the time they leave they are decently mannered, bright eyed, wide smiles, helpful, and just sweet little boys like they truly are. And they really don't want to leave but mama guilt trips or bribes with toys or games, fast food and snacks...they earn those rewards under my roof or go without...I'm not strict, loud, or a warden of Sam quinton. But I do expect rules to be followed, and respect for their daddy and my girlfriend, who has the same mentality as I. When they return, they are back to square one....I do not know how much more de ja vu I can handle, I'm almost to the point of just explaining that they will not come back yo daddy's house until they decide they can act like the good little boys they are...I don't want that, even through the hell I'm happy when I have my boys...ADVICE PLEASE!!!! And there is no compromise or understanding from their mother, and she portrays to be super mom....the 9years I spent with her and her quack family justifies my words. Evil.