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To start off I have been in this relationship off and on for 6 going on 7 years. I have 2 children by him they are 5 (boy) and 3yrs (girl) and 2 older by different father. Me and my fiance have been through alot ,by the way he proposed to me on Valentines Day . It has not really felt like a real relationship since we have been together. We do not live together and really don't spend time together. So the best way to put it we are engaged and do not spend the night together at all. I could say i could count at least 2 and a half weeks we have actually spent the night together and really not even that. We are 2 total different people and have different views very different. I want more for my children. Better education, bigger house, and better enviroment . He wants to be here and does not want me to move too far but its really expensive. I want to move 2 and a half to 3 hours away but i feel like like i am taking his kids away. Well that's how he makes me feel anyway. I know i am unhappy but , No matter how i approach him to talk about it he becomes manipulative and tries to put things that are negative in my head. i feel kinda lost. like i lost myself and can't find my way to think for myself. What i do know is i do have 2 older children who deserve a stable mother in a stable home. Anyone have any suggestions or feedback. Thanks!